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Feb. 3rd, 2007 @ 01:27 am Advice....ANYONE???
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ok so heres the deal. My first girlfriend who i have been with for about 4 months now was engaged to this other girl before me... heres where the story gets good. They were together about 2 months when mutual friends of theirs went off and got married and well her ex-g/f (nicole) decided she wanted a engagement ring. So she went shopping and picked one out and got her way. I guess (michelle) who is my g/f didnt really want to give it to her to begin with but she thought she was the one for her. Well the thing nicole and i have in common is michelle is both our first. So eventually things went bad between them and nicole ended it with michelle and come to find out nicole was cheating on michelle which isnt the worst part!!!! It was with her cousin kevin. So many people have told michelle that she should get her ring back but nicole wont give it back even now that she is engaged to some guy named adam. I think that b/c nicole broke it off with her she has the rights back to her ring when they exchanged them the made a promise and well she screwed it up.
i guess the thing that gets me is by her still allowing her to keep thing ring i feel as if they are still tied together by that. i dont really know how to explain it but i mean i have mentioned to michelle that she should get it back but thats about as far as it goes and i dont really know why this bothers me so much.
am i over reacting or should i talk to her about this and if so i dont know how to bring it up and what to even say about all of it....

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Date:February 5th, 2007 06:32 am (UTC)
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Are you overreacting? Maybe, depending on your morality, but that's between the two of you. As far as the ring, she has a legal right to get it back, since the engagement was broken off. She can take legal action, if she so chooses. Just my 2 cents.
Date:February 8th, 2007 04:59 am (UTC)
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i have talked to her about that but...she never says much when it gets brought up and she says it doesnt matter its not goin to change her mind about givin it back n e wayz